We won’t get married anywhere near anything scary…
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We won’t get married anywhere near anything scary…
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Loulous och Eeros lilla Emilie är snart hela fyra månader gammal och därför dedikerar jag denna video till henne:
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I have finally worked out how to organize my computer. I spent a long time looking for some kind of freeware that would be able to file documents, pictures and so on conceptually. There are several out there but most of them cost more than around twenty dollars, so with the wedding coming up I decided against buying any right now. I realized I’d benefit the most if the organization would be based on the principles of GTD (see my previous post on the matter for more information) and even though there are excellent programmes available for that, I thought I’d take the challenge of working around money and simply using what I have – a clean interface in Finder, the option to colour code both folders and documents, and finally the option to place some folders in the side menu of Finder. So what I have now is:
While cleaning up the folder hierarchy I’ve renamed many folders in an attempt to avoid a lot of subfolders:
Pictures: I’m trying not to distinguish between file types anymore because it is irrelevant if stuff is picture or text, so only my photographs go into Pictures from now on, the rest will be filed under Documents.
Already I can feel what a huge difference it makes to have Archive files, Ticklers and Project-plan files separated, because the process of defining whether a file is active or not, while scrolling through the Documents > “Interests – Knitting” folder, is now gone. My original division into categories is intact, which is useful since I already have it in my head, but the scrollable amount is remarkably smaller, and when a file changes status all I do is drag it into another already existing folder or I rename the whole folder.
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Goodness, so much has happened since round 1. The dress arrived weeks ago, the stationery has been worked on for real and a lot of details regarding almost anything between heaven and earth related to weddings has been pondered not once but twice. Now I should put everything on hold for a couple of weeks but find it hard after having breathed wedding for such a long time again. I moved in the beginning of May and got my net back a couple of weeks later, which is when the planning was taken off hold. I can’t wait for the day to actually be here already!
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Denmark is now officially Windowsland, Lalaland, Winland, Winmark or just about any combination of the two that one might come up with. I’ve been helping my fiancé out with job applications for a longer time already and the conclusion is more than depressing; less than 10 % of all jobs within server support and such involve penguins (and of those less than 10 % are suitable for non-Danish speakers). Go away, stay far away from Denmark if you want to work with a computer that runs on an alternative OS. Yes, indeed, keep this country at a safe distance, approximately 1.5 hours of plane ride, which would place your feet solidly in Linuxia, Finlandia. Much better. And cuter too (go see the penguins walk the streets of Helsinki).
I don’t get it. I just don’t get it. How on earth can small companies afford to pay the astronomical money mountains that seem to please Mr. Licence so much? And what about the hospitals, universities, municipalities, towns, blahblahs and blahblahs, which certainly don’t swim in coins either? Each time Mr. Licence has a new whim, he collects his dollar$. Yes stay, no leave. Or how did it go – yes leave, no stay? Mr. Licence loves you like Cable Guy really, haven’t you noticed? And he comes with extra spices too, the type that itches baaaaaaad, but who cares, we love our STD’s. This curse of an OS is resourceful indeed and he has come to stay. Talk about revolución – there is none because we’re already part of the digestional processes in the first of many, pretty licence stomachs…
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Lately I find myself so extremely tired of people who have to hide behind the most creative of aliases when expressing the most creative of opinions on the Internet. Many of those comments can in their abusiveness and complete lack of respect for the opinions of others be flushed down the toilet immediately. Ignorance should be bliss in those instances, but for some reason it isn’t – maybe because those faceless creatures manage to shout so loudly that others can’t resist a reply? No matter the reason, a constructive and mature dialogue can never arise, which to be honest pisses me off more than a little.
When people remain faceless, I simply can’t be bothered to keep a real discussion going any longer. Drop the aliases, step up, stand behind your views and dare be corrected if you have false information, and behave like the men and women you are. In short, grow up already and make the net a better place to be, where something real can be achieved. The bad people of politics will never listen to you, but will keep calling you activists and god knows what more, and meanwhile they can continue to push our societies down the censorship drain - 1984 is here and now in case you haven’t noticed.
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There was a time when I thought travelling was glamorous, to be very specific around the time I moved to Denmark and regularly began walking the halls of airports. Now it’s only hateful with hordes of people, who often seem to have no idea of where to find their gates, and the romance is long gone. And to add to the nuisance I feel worse about the environmental aspect of my flying back and forth, as well.
To my great surprise it doesn’t have to cost a small farm to compensate for the emission caused if one is to use the service of The CarbonNeutral Company. For instance a round trip between Copenhagen and Helsinki, which is around 1900 km, would cause a production of 0.2 tonnes of carbon dioxide and thereby lead to a sum of less than 5€ to invest in one of the company’s current projects. The money one invests is used in the development of renewable-energy projects and such.
The CarbonNeutral Company has counters for not only air travel but also other kinds of travel and homes.
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Yesterday I tried wedding dresses on for the first time and was surprised by the amount of fabric in A-line dresses. I went to a bridal shop here in Copenhagen and was met by a woman who clearly didn’t have a good day. She was distant and she annoyed me on more than one occasion, since it seemed like she was just following a protocol of some kind with no real interest in getting me all excited in the situation – and maybe secure me as a customer, as well… (FYI wedding dresses aren’t cheap in any way and most of them need some altering after the first fitting, so it’s more than a simple “ka-ching” with the credit card.) I was there by myself and could have used both positive and negative feedback, but the only thing she told me was that I definitely should go for the A-line shape and also that I can wear strapless dresses since my shoulders have a clear look. Wonder what unclear shoulders look like?
Something good came out of the experience anyway – I now know my size. Wedding dresses change surprisingly much in size, even if they are from the same manufacturer, so I decided to look some more on the net. After having tried five dresses on, I managed to force a short “good bye” from the lady and left with no intention of coming back. For reference I called them today to get the price of my dress of choice and got the same lady on the thread – as sour and distant as yesterday. She couldn’t provide me with a specific price and all I got from her was “Oh, well, it depends on the model and on how much lace there is on it, so the Pronovias dresses cost around 8000 DKK or more”. Great. I wonder why it is so difficult to check the database for a simple figure.
So a Pronovias of the 2009 collection it will be (but I won’t announce the specific model since my guy might read this blog). I paid for it today and had a more than pleasant experience at House of Brides; they certainly know how to treat customers well. Now it takes something between three and five months before it arrives, depending on whether they have it on stock or not, and then the alterations might add a month or more, so it will be ready just in time for the big day.
Finally I can relax a bit as far as pink glasses go. The chuch and priest have been booked since November last year and after some thinking the party place has been reserved, as well. The florist has been consulted, we’re looking for a photographer as we speak and soon the detective’s work needs to focus on finding nice musicians. The only trouble so far was when a woman at the church office called a few weeks ago to inform me about a double booking of the church – “Excuse me!?” Apparently we were supposed to get married in sync with high screams from the baby to be christened… How charming! Eventually the baby was chucked out, so now it’s all about romance and eternal love.
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Recently I found a book called “Getting Things Done” by David Allen. It’s not one of the typical self-help books even though it has been classified as such on British Amazon, there appearing on the first page within its category. For a long time I felt that a link was missing between many organizational fragments of mine, so it became vital once and for all to glue them together. And since most self-help books are written in English, what better place to look for a suitable source of inspiration than one of the book shops on the net?
After some browsing I narrowed the books down to two of which “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People – Powerful Lessons in Personal Change” by Steven R. Covey I will tackle next. This one is legendary and the first edition appeared already in the beginning of the 90’s. But let’s return to “Getting Things Done”, hereafter referred to as GTD.
Most of Allen’s clients are apparently business people from higher levels of management, but the luxury of a hectic daily life isn’t theirs only, so I decided to give his method a go. It doesn’t seem very meaningful to cite him word for word, since I could end up copying the first two chapters of his book, which is why I’ll take “my way” as an approach instead.
Background. I’m a medical student at a university where there is one single exam per semester and where there are neither specified litterature nor reading lists available other than those made by fellow students. The challenge is to find out which books suit me personally, what specifically to read and when. And all that needs to be worked out rather quickly due to a high pace since day 1 of a new semester. Needless to say it also has to be coordinated with the rest of a student’s life, which has turned out to be quite a challenge indeed. The task of kicking oneself into movement may seem so displeasing that procrastination might begin to flourish – which it does. Charming behaviour, not to be expected from a person intelligent enough to realize how much damage (s)he is actually causing… Sadly, I know that many others join me in this horrible pattern twice yearly and most feel as bad about it as I do. So now comes the punch line/cliché/whatever you wish to call it: “I have a solution to the problem”.
Stop procrastinating. By using the Getting Things Done method you can expect results, get things done. Time for next cliché: “You need to stick to it or it won’t work”. Try it! It’s simple, doesn’t require you to do major changes (other than maybe clean up among your stacks of paper and emails), doesn’t promise you things you can’t achieve, doesn’t ask for the impossible. It does however require some initial thought, some commitment to get the project going and some persistence, because it’s still you who needs to do the work. But if you do it step by step, you almost can’t avoid getting sucked into the next phase of the process. And from my experience you can achieve a lot already by reading the first two chapters, which aren’t really that long and don’t take up too much time either.
The method. GTD consists of five chronological stages, all very clear and logical, so don’t expect anything difficult. The only hard part might arise when you must prioritize between two or several options, but for that there are some pointers to be read in later chapters. So, five stages: 1) collect, 2) process, 3) organize, 4) review, 5) do. For you to have a visual, check this flow chart out (it’s from the book). What has been visualized are the actions you need to do and the eight different places where information might end up, either temporarily or permanently. In essence, the deal is to maintain the overall level of organization as high as possible all the time, so no time or energy is wasted on worrying about things that might have been forgotten and which things to choose from the so-called “Next-actions” list, thereby creating as stressfree an environment as possible. Sounds cliché? Yes, but it works for me and many others. For a nutshell version of the method, please read this blog, A Primer on Getting Things Done, at 7P Productions.
My way. This is GTD applied to my daily life:
For medical students at University of Copenhagen. This is my idea of a pleasant start of the semester:
Conclusion. Don’t decide against GTD just because there’s a lot of jargon. You’ll catch up fast and I recommend reading the second chapter twice or until you feel you’ve grasped the main idea anyway. The trick is to find the right tools to handle your workflow and even if it shouldn’t be a matter of how technological your solution is, there are some advantages to keep the daily-used tools electronical. Not all PDA’s are horribly expensive anymore, although I personally steer clear of anything that hasn’t a beautiful mac user interface. Automatically updated calendars and synchronization are a huge hit, but the archives need to be nice to handle too, so consider something that isn’t completely horrible to look at and difficult to use. Ordning & Reda is hugely recommended – it’s pretty. And before I sell my soul to some brand, I stop for now. I hope you enjoy the GTD ride!
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